Wednesday, November 25, 2009

SIW (Single Independent Woman)

I was thinking its real nice to be that i am in peace with feels awesum to be single...maybe that is what triggered this post

I am an SIW (Single Independent Woman)

I heard a saying “Some women are not meant to be tamed..

Guess that is that category I come from. I don’t need a shining star. I am no delicate darling and I don’t want to be rescued. I seriously don’t need a frog or a charming prince..I am what the hep world loves to be “Single and Happy

We got no one to worry about. No one to demand an explanation when the phone is “Waiting” at 12 am..The best advantage of being single is the attention that gets showered from all the directions..and you know you are worth every bit of it *wink wink*

I mean who likes to be tagged as “his girl".
We would rather be called as “me
I am the kind of person who has been single like all my life and there are many out there like me and we sure rock. A few things that I feel are the advantages of Single is like total independence..This may sound dumb..

All ma time is mine..See let me explain
If you are a single woman, You can pick up and go anywhere you want, anytime you want. You may occasionally feel that you have too much empty time on your hands, but you can fill that time any way that you want without anyone making remarks at you.
If you are single, you can take full advantage of every day that you can spare. From weekend jaunts to summer resort vacations, this is the time in your life when you can best afford to get away. All your time is yours..

Ma money is all mine… Money is meant to be enjoyed.. You can splurge every penny you earn on yourself without bothering bout gifting anyone anything..indulge yourself without guiltof “not” shopping for the “partner”

There is a lotta learning too for a SIW..You see.. being single you know that you have no one to help the “Damsel in distress”..SO..jus go ahead
.. trust yourself handle things on your own; have your car serviced to dealing with home repair protecting yourself.. Through this process, you will learn how capable you truly are.

This is somehow my favorite part of this blog..its like the ultimate the biggest advantage to being a single woman. You have the unique opportunity to mold and shape your life and pursue your dreams. There are no reasons to settle for second-best and no one else is depending on the choices that you make. Even if your ultimate goal is to marry and settle down, you might as well get your own life in place first. So go for the brass ring and shoot for the stars. Create the life that you want for yourself and then, if you want one, find a partner who will fit into that i sound matured or wat.... *tch tch*

Damn…”Singlesome is awesome”..I know a lot of them agree with me..